Reality Checks With Love

Why should someone be made to feel bad for not ever feeling the same way as another about them  ? Why is it challenging for some to accept the right  one has  to choose for themselves and not believe in the same connection one might wish to have with them ? Since when did Love ever have to beg & since when Love ever became

A bully ? 

Since when was it said that because he likes her she must like him or that she likes him and he must like her 

??

when did Love ever first

Suggest 

a price tag with it ? 

Some lovers buy you as their solution for your attention and affection - and some oblige these requests 

Energies exchanging of an Empty nest - there’s no energy of wealth in that - the illusion is the disguise. 

Emptiness inside 

So many unhealthy conditionings of behaviors exhibited by humans that attach the word love to their crusades and exhibit toxic pain by the things they say - do and create -

some attempt to hide their toxic very well & others just show case their junk everywhere 

Either way .. 

Take a step back and check yourself and where you are in the department of love and mirror to you how you choose to behave & ask yourself are you toxic and if so, describe every way & please transmute that away. 

If you are in any Way asking for loving things from someone else to give to you & they are not willingly doing so (naturally) - ask yourself - why would you want to convince someone to want you / validate you / treat you in the way you require that clearly they have no desire to do on their own (unless manipulated / bullied / cornered / or bought) 

Is that any kind of victory or peace ? 

Or are you the bully / manipulator / Buyer for this craving Love & so you justify your stance 

Some take the  victim approach too & projects their hurt feelings to the person they attack. Due to their hurt feelings they Villanize   the person not reciprocating love because their ego tells them their right about how they think this all should go down ... (is that even a word ? “Villanize” If not, so mote it be - it just became one on here ) 

Villanize : to paint another as wicked / untrustworthy / deceitful / narcissistic/ insensitive & capable of committing acts that are moralistically questionable or against the law.  

Whatever the case may be in some way we all become villanized in someone’s story line. 

Sounds like we all should have our own artistic platform channels of expression for ourselves.

To the ocd commenter on here - create your own blog please. Express yourself over there free.   

Stop chasing people that do not even look for you. 

Relationships are a two way street. If you’re in a one way lane trying to forge it into a two way - you might hit a brick wall and break your own vehicle.  Before fighting someone to love you - make sure the someone is somebody you clearly KNOW & not some stranger or online person you have never met in the 3D. Also before trying to force your side in someone else’s lane - would you please STOP & LOVE yourself in every kind of way. There is no need to behave obsessively. Obsessive is not love vibes - that’s some other kind of vibe that is toxic af. 

Plus you should really Make sure that anyone worthy of you even bridging reconciliation for should be a love that is someone you actually have a solid connection with and history too (in this life time preferably  )   

You can’t force what is not going to be - so stop chasing what is clearly not yours or does not want to be. When you force things you create blocks to your own blessings and true love experiences. 

Stop chasing - when you do That’s your own subconscious sabotaging you &  playing it’s behavioral role creating havoc in your world. 

. Toxic energies love forming bonds with their owners. 

I hope you  never chase someone new that  you just met - cause that makes zero sense.  Feelings or codependency ? Spiritual or Adrenalin ? Real or illusion ?  You  definitely shouldn’t chase someone you never even touched in the physical  or seen live In The flesh. Stop reading and listening to others about this and that and determine your own fact and fiction. Stop romanticizing TwinFlames and soulmates and relationships.  

EVOLVE 

GROW 

KNOW 

I mean come on does the person you chase ever be in the same town as you ? Have you met this person at all ? Have you seen Love stand right  in front of your eyes and both of you feel it every time  ? 

Love cannot be disguised - it is FELT !  When two People feel love for one another - they SHARE it ! It’s that simple ! 

 Yes we are spiritual but let’s be practical and logical too. We are not rabbits chasing our own tails - so stop making tales up about others in your mind & becoming upset with reality when it doesn’t match with your hidden perceptions of distortions. 

I have chased my own rainbows a time before and all it was for me was chaotic folklore and I blocked many doors for myself when I did. Reality checks are not always fun or kind but they do the job and create the energy for us to get real with ourselves and align. 

It is time ! 

 These chaser views can be  wishful thinking on your part (own it) own your own feelings and desires.  Find your own  outlet of creative espression  and stop acting oblivious to the damage you cause when you choose to spread your toxicity. 

We all have had a secret crush 

& for many we have experienced rejection and unrequited love.

It happens ..

Learn from it and get over it 

It’s for your own good Health Wealth Stealth 

Let’s use our ability to intellectualize our behaviors so that we may heal our deepest core wounds & create healthy connections with others starting with ourselves. 

  

Let this message marinate