How to NOT STRESS him..
Girls Sweat / Stress too much .. More so than men of course..
The reasons as to the whys that you all so actively desire to know in figuring out why this is so.. Please LET it GO.. Let that tired search go and just ACCEPT that it is what it is and we the female sex…
NOT ALL.. Not every woman .. Please don't mistake any of my babbles for literal exactitudes of calculations .. No way lol
Please Do not ever come into Wonderland with your fine ruler and making or turning my words and my expressions here into any kind of diluted spectacle of absoluteness... Labeling words as concrete.. So that you can utter / belittle / and try to put to shame ...
No Siree Bob kindly do stay away ...
No Bueno
Where's ya love ??
Nothing in wonderland here is final and all in life should never be taken for absolute exactitude…
Sorry Miss Know it all ...
You gots to be kidding me dude ..
Golden rule ..
There are no rules ...
Servitude ..
For me, not you ..
Or maybe you too ..
Try not to be so stubborn boo boo ...
AnyhoO.. cause I tell you now that if this is YOU, you know searching over here for things to criticize ... Burn alive ... in this life ... Entering this world .. My world lovingly created for you to enter if you so please ... You..
Do not fine search tooth comb this wonderland here looking for something to POINT out to ME, or to OTHERS…
It's all about mirrors ..
Images ..
Reflections ..
Whenever you have something to say to me I say unto you ..
Mirror mirror, I see you ..
I tell you now in absolute LOVe my friend if that is YOU, the person looking to point your fingers every which way ...
I ask of you sweet butterscotch crisp to take your own finger & shove it in your culo, do a little culo dance and culo laugh about it…. Like for realz…
Wonderland is all about LOVe and FREEDOM…
And butts ..
Get Got it .. Good .. Freedom!!!
Freedom of expression.
Ok For Faery Melodramatic purposes only we are going to faery say for this how to purpose only .. We are going to say that inside this BOX there are ONLY two types of woman…
Type woman :
1. The stick up her ass all in denial type of woman who doesn’t need a man for anything cause she’s big bad boss Bitch and she got her own damn self…
Yup she cool..
She bad..
She about that life…
that’s awesome…
Strut your ish chica there is no hating there on you at all … Wonderland is not about that at all.. So leave those earthly things above ground … Up there before you decided to fall down here this rabbit hole and enter our Sweet little Wonderland of Enchanting Babble..
Is that right ?? Ok chica whatever floats your goat ... To each is own ..
Lol
& then here is
Type Woman :
2. Wants a man… needs a man.. When she has her man, doesn’t let go of her man..
Probably has gotten played by her man, is on top of her man,
look through all his shit
etc etc etc etc oh and lets not forget no hoe better come up next to her man wanting a piece of him… uh-uh.. No way ..
Miss home wrecker best to step back….
Type Woman : Invisible 3
I for comical purposes will not bring woman 3 into this scenario because woman 3 is an even sadder story
where she is so disconnected from the world that she just numbingly lives her days …
day to day.. Night to night.. A stranger even unto herself…
Oh No.. I will NOT speak of woman number 3... For why should I??? she doesn’t even exist!!!!!
Anyways….
I get upset speaking of woman #3 … I know… because once upon a dreadful time…
She was me
I was She…
And her sad tales I know like the back of my sorrowful once upon a time land and world I allowed for myself to bathe in night and day..
I’ve also been Woman 1 before you all go saying something else…
I have and I tell you NOW .. NEVER been woman #2...
I have been other kinds of stupid in my life lesson journeys but hey we all live and we learn…
That is the name of this life game of ours…
We live to learn to EARN..
So yes yearn to earn the beauty of the lesson and life expansion fulfilling process of your PROGRESS…
Even if it all feels like it takes fkn forever…
We are stubborn creatures by nature ….
So ladies…
This is a HOW to not STRESS your MAN, and still KEEP/MAINTAIN an OPEN HEART…
You want healthy, happy, Loving relationships right???
Well here is a Happy, Healthy, Loving way you can go about in doing this whether you are single, or in a relationship.
YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE!!
No matter what you say .. How you say it … How you perceive it.. Your relationship status / level of intimacy received/given and everything that you attract is a REFLECTION of everything that you truly are…
And you might say.. Uh-uh I do not attract players, or commitment phobic assholes…
But honey.. I am not here to argue with you, but all I will say to you is to truly explore and step through to your dark side and really begin to analyze everything about you and your own behaviors, conditionings, thoughts, unintentional manifestations….
I would love to explore that with you.. I really really would for these are the things I do to myself and to all the people around me for I am in constant analytical / scientifically / mesmeriComical states of mind..
Bizarre way to entertain and approach this life…
Life of the Loners..
The Aloners… able to give a HOW TO NOT STRESS YOUR MAN …
And this is open to be perceived in many a ways…
For I do not believe in death anyways.. Well not death in the same way as I once upon a time did ...
But truly Do not stress mentally over any man..
Do not stress a man out in real everyday life because of your own crazies and insecurities..
I don’t know what it may mean for you .. It is Open to reflect to you whatever it may be for you and the level and severity of how you do whatever you do that you KNOW that you do..
Well.. You know your own truth .. You know what needs to go and you know what needs to change…
The choice is OPTIONAL and always up to you…
Ladies..
We live in a world that we are coming into our own and our FREEDOM to be everything that we are and by far we are Lady Goddesses here on earth, Divine and spiritually blessed..
BREATHE THAT SHIT IN!!!!
Like do you not understand the MAGNITUDE of PROFOUND meaning and HEART and SOUL that is dynamic about that entire ACKNOWLEDGEMENT …
That is a mother effin BLESSING…
BLESSING…
You are BLESSED!!!!
If you are Spirit/Essence/ Being/ ENERGY..
Then YES you are DIVINE and BLESSED..
For this makes you ETERNAL..
Everlasting…
We are energetic living beings… Science describes energy as never being able to be destroyed only TRANSFORMED and changed / Magic into another state……
So HELLO….
What does that mean for us ….
If we are spirit/ energy/ soul/ essence.. Whatever the fk we are…. If we are these things that science explains to us that is never able to be destroyed…
TRANSFORMED///
CHANGED….
Whatever that means for you.. You are entitled to whatever you choose to BELIEVE..
This scientific fact in its definition delivers US confirmation of our own IMMORTALITY…
Breathe that in too…
BREATHE it and own that invincibility….
Inhale and exhale your life and your precious breath..
Get a Hobby… Because if you are working and still have time to be all up your mans ass and all naggy and annoying and all needy.. It only means you still have too much time on your hands and you little miss needy need to figure out what your real problem is that you do not even wish to be by yourself … or you need to figure out your needs and your wants and if things are adding up.. Because one plus one does equal 2.. Ya know..
Anything can be a hobby.. This here blogging of mine is a adored hobby of mine.. One of many hobbies let me tell you… I have so many it is so true.. Even my invisible man leaves me to tend to all of my own personal hobbies FREELY.. He is so sweet… lol
Drawing… painting… coloring… doodling.. Taking pictures.. Cleaning.. Writing… helping others… walking.. Hiking.. Yoga.. Dancing.. Martial arts… tarot cards.. Crystal learning and collecting.. Crocheting… making stuff.. Singing… predicting.. Reading.. Research.. Decorating.. Styling.. Exercising.. Video games.. Story telling.. Taking online courses.. Participate in online workshops / real life workshops.. Meditating.. Stretching.. Laughing.. Crafting..
Listen there are so many things out there that you can do that you c an find that you actually like and do not mind working on or doing because it is something that YOU LIKE….
Now if you say..
Well I don’t like anything.. There is nothing that I enjoy doing or whatever … I say that make this your first hobby… Make yourself your own personal hobby and adventurer where you are learning and trying different things in rediscovery of who you are and finding out what it is that you do Love…
Because there has to be something…
You are NOT a ROBOT…
You are a real Girl…
Lol..
Like Pinocchio … I am a real boy..
This post is not just for woman… I have decided to change my mind when I am trying to be almost finished here but of course t his version of How to is Uncut and Raw .. Making this completely unedited … and I can change my mind if I want to…
This How to article is for Anyone for everyone for ALL to learn HOW to NOT STRESS anyone else out…
Or How to not have t he time or wasted energy to stress your own self out over anyone else that is in your life or not in your life…
How to Sure fire ways to get your head out of the gutter and out of the mindset of going nuts and driving others insane too…
Here in wonderland we do not like to drive others insane when we already acknowledge the insane within all and accept this as the mandatory function of handlings in these necks of the woods..
This is why we are all so very happy here….
I am being prompted to end this HOW to ARTICLE with a to be continued with more tips of how NOT to Drive Others Crazy in your life…
So lesson for today in the first HOW TO NOT ACT CRAZY WITH OTHERS IN YOUR LIFE .. Episode 1.…
1. YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE so be LOVE ALWAYS
2. YOUR PERCEPTION is only a REFLECTION of YOU. When this happens it is time for you to go within and be honest with yourself.
3. Get a HOBBY.. Actually have MANY HOBBIES and be mindful of your time you devote to birth these babies into existence… feed your soul your fuel
4. ALWAYS STRETCH.. Stretch your Mind.. Stretch your Body… Stretch your heart .. And Stretch your Soul…
5. ALWAYS WEAR YOUR BRA
BELIEVE
RECEIVE
ACHIEVE
6. BELIEVE in yourself and LOVE YOURSELF MORE
7. LOVE YOURSELF MORE
Anyways this ends this How to Act like a civilized non robot with feelings and be HONEST with yourself life interventions Episode 1... Uncut and raw
Blessings to you All
NAMASTE
