Love Your Kids Right

Yup I too just had one of those mom moments ...

Where I wanted to ...

But luckily i Saged the place down and shifted the energy in this house because that is what CONTROL is what it's all about ...

SELF CONTROL 

No one likes to be told what to do ..

Neither do kids..

Yet, we believe / perceive / conceive / behave as though children need guidance and must be given orders to some degree / extent / on some level..  

We even feel that way about adults too ..

People like to feel in CHARGE ..

Makes them feel important telling others what to do ..

Well hello..

Meet the rebel in me .

Refusing wholeheartedly to comply ..

To any orders ...

But let's get back to our kids ...

How can we make our crazy little critters more cooperative and willing to work together without instilling 

Fear 

Threats 

Arguments 

And all that other crazy Yelling stuff we often can find ourselves doing if we are not careful...

Let me find an example to use ..

Some mummy pointers ...

Let's say i need to clean the kitchen. And I know when i clean I certainly don't wish to be bothered. Cause I tell you right now, sagittarians don't like to clean .. They like CLEAN .. But dislike being the ones to do it ... So the last thing this SagE wants is to be "annoyed" or "bothered" when I'm already doing something that honestly i would rather not be doing .. I could after all be creating something other than "cleaning" this ish..

But just as I know from experience it is during these times "children" choose for some reason to want to "harass" you like if you're not busy. Lol 

It's like WTf .. 

Go away you little hell raiser ...

Hahhaha 

My suggestion to you is how can you go about doing this activity without being harassed by the youngins. 

Make your home fun 

You are queen of your castle ..

Before they get to you 

Get to them ...

Go in their room..

And make a fun mess ..

Make it seem crazy ..

Like ooh what's mummy doing she's making a mess ....

Challenge them ..

CHALLENGE YOUR KIDS TO A RACE

A DUAL 

one that you tell them you're going to win them in ....

You are going to race them with cleaning up the kitchen before they get to clean up mummy's mess in the room ...

Fine!!! 

You don't want a mess ...

Challenge them to a coloring contest..

Give them an amount of pictures they must color <<< inside the lines >>> make sure to include that part because kids can be slick ...

Make everything Fun..

Keep them out of your hair by playing with theirs..

STIMULATE THEM ..

Make them a part of your world ...

After all they are your kids

Namaste. 

Love your Kids Right through LOVE 

😍😝👍

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