My sistaR reminded me so beautifully too when she said, “sometimes you have to forget what you feel & remember what you deserve.”
and she is rightness
Sometimes we have to forget what we feel and know that we deserve so much more. Especially in regards to intimate relations.
He doesn’t travel outside his box of norms
& he won’t travel outside his comforts not even for she.
Any man in love would most certainly go the greatest of distance for his love.
When they do not travel the distance it’s because they don’t want to nor are they invested in you. If that is something you want from another for them to go that extra mile and they don’t : then you need to reEvaluate your own sense of worthiness and deservingness.
Those that want to make personal time for you and with you will do so as long as they want to make time for you. If they are so busy and distracted let them be. That is the truth of their truest priorities & set them free