Help Yourself First: Embracing the Power of Saying No!

 

Life has made me so quiet; all I ever want to do is listen. This takes me back to when I was a little girl, never bored when there was nothing to do because silence was cool. I would listen and have these profound inquiries with God / Universe about the sound of silence and how there’s no such thing as silence. How can that be, especially when meditation was so important for me to achieve at such a young age? I was built to sage. Innately, we know our true space and place; we just get knocked down here on earth, merging with gravity which is always outside of ourselves.

Meanwhile, all of earth, no matter how outside it may appear, is happening within—inside myself. This is where life appears to be happening outside of myself - meanwhile that’s the illusion because all thee world and life I know to be is happening within myself first and foremost. So All that giving and giving I have gave & still give —the energy, frequency, and vibration that is all of  myself constantly giving itself  away has received many wake up calls & so here we are. Expression is my garment worn of lace. No wonder I have exhausted myself & shy away from being so see through. It’s in these humbling spaces that are still moments when I remember to listen.

Oracle Card: Excessively Giving

“Help Yourself First”

There’s nothing wrong with being helpful; the problem comes when you over-give at the expense of your own personal and professional well-being. It’s time to give yourself permission to say “no.” Remember, you cannot pour from an empty cup. Your value is inherent and must be honored first and foremost.

Wisdom from the Heart:

You know, there’s this thing about giving—it feels good, right? But when you give so much that you forget about your own needs, that’s when it gets tricky. It’s like, how can you pour from an empty cup? You’ve got to fill up your own cup first, and that’s the thing—your cup is overfloweth, and here you are just giving it all away and forgetting to extend that same love to yourself. Stand in your value, recognize your worth. It’s okay to say “no” sometimes, without explanation too, because you are free to choose healthy and wise for yourself. You need not explain, especially to unreasonable folk who seem to only exist to make life complicated. See them for who they are and set the tone right for yourself. It’s a vibe check thing, know what I mean, jellybeans?

With love always,

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